Play recommendations
- Judge everyone and everything by moral standards and sympathy.
- Start sentences with "You" or "We".
- Hold speeches about the team and togetherness.
- Put people in boxes.
- Comment on the relationship level instead of the content.
👉 Rule of thumb: Relationship before content. Action before reaction.
Body language
- Take an upright, present posture.
- Use your facial expressions actively – frowning, head-shaking, smiling.
- Use your hands to underline your judgements.
- Look people directly in the eye.
- You're fine with closeness when the relationship calls for it.
Signature lines
- "You're great!"
- "You're not quite there yet."
- "That's not how we treat each other…"
- "I find that difficult, because…"
- "One really should…"
- "That says a lot about you…"
- "As ____ we should ____."
